Author Archives: Sarani

About Sarani

Experienced and skilled Tantric Massage Practitioner and Certified Sexological Bodyworker in East London, Leyton.

Longing to make your Passion your Job? Think Again… :-)

The other day I was looking through our bookcase, in search of a SINGLE title that did NOT have to do with Tantra, Sexuality, Self Development, or Business. Eventually I found a good novel, but it took some rummaging! Where … Continue reading

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Home, Heimat, and Belonging

I’ve recently relocated to the Hampstead area, and was enjoying the view from Parliament Hill, on a fine day, along with everybody else, dog walkers, couples, families. London’s skyline has changed that rapidly in the past decade. There must be … Continue reading

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Romantic Love, Magic, and Tantra

Spring is almost here! A good time to write about love and romance. Since my last blog post, about Valentines, I pondered a lot about what ‘romantic’ means for people. I was quizzing my friends what connotations the word ‘romantic’ … Continue reading

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Tantra, Illness, and Gender

Years ago, when I studied Public Health at university I remember getting upset about the ease with which men present statistics for breast cancer. It seemed to be their favourite topic! I mused on the penchant to discuss a kind … Continue reading

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Authentic Tantric Massage vs. Sensual Massage

Tantric Massage seems to have a lot in common with sensual massage, they both use similar massage strokes in a certain order. Their aims, however, are quite different! Sensual massage is used as a foreplay to sex or leads up … Continue reading

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Valentines

I remember Valentines day in New York – it must have been Feb 14th 1999 – and I was studying there for a year, and being quite surprised about the fuss that was being made, and the kitschy pressies to … Continue reading

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Who Are My Clients?

I am blessed with a vast range of people who come to see me. Though most of them seem to be middle class, quite a number of them aren’t! They are rich or poor, educated, or less so, Caucasian, Asian … Continue reading

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Tantric Massage and Healing

The headline “tantric massage” covers a vast range of services. As its worst, it can be a synonym for, well, a heartless hand-job, more or less. I often find it difficult to put into words what I offer. What do … Continue reading

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Prostate Health and Prostate Massage

I was talking to a male gay friend in his 60s the other day who had just been to his doctor to have biopsies from his prostate gland taken. Given that he had no symptoms, i.e. no change in his … Continue reading

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On Judgement

When I started Tantric Massage I was convinced – like many of my colleagues – that there were two kinds: the sexual kind (not ours) and the spiritual one (ours!). The were really easy to tell apart. The first kind … Continue reading

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