Monthly Archives: January 2015

Tantric Massage and Healing

The headline “tantric massage” covers a vast range of services. As its worst, it can be a synonym for, well, a heartless hand-job, more or less. I often find it difficult to put into words what I offer. What do … Continue reading

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Prostate Health and Prostate Massage

I was talking to a male gay friend in his 60s the other day who had just been to his doctor to have biopsies from his prostate gland taken. Given that he had no symptoms, i.e. no change in his … Continue reading

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On Judgement

When I started Tantric Massage I was convinced – like many of my colleagues – that there were two kinds: the sexual kind (not ours) and the spiritual one (ours!). The were really easy to tell apart. The first kind … Continue reading

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On Integrity

I really love and cherish my work, especially when I feel I really made a difference to someone’s life in a SINGLE session – compared with my colleagues the Psychosexual Counsellors – they work on the same issues, however, it … Continue reading

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Night of the Senses

Recently, I was asked to help out at a charity event called the Night of the Senses, for a charity called Outsiders, founded by Tuppy Owens. The charity promotes the rights of disabled people to sexual activity, or, in other … Continue reading

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My Mother Never Touched Me

These days I seem to encounter a lot of problems that are due to not having had sufficient physical loving touch in childhood. I am sure this must be a problem for women, too, but I limit myself to what … Continue reading

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Delayed Ejaculation

I must confess that I had never before come across a male client with a problem of delayed ejaculation before, especially not being linked to any erectile dysfunction, and in a client who was in his late twenties. It therefore … Continue reading

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Celibate Marriages

While I still have many more male than female clients, I would think about 50% of both genders coming to see me are married, and would either like to overcome a performance issue, are in a celibate marriage, or think … Continue reading

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At Ease with Women

Recently I had a new client in his late twenties of Asian origin, born in the UK to Asian parents with traditional values. Half way through the tantric massage, he confessed that he had never been with a naked woman … Continue reading

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Addiction and Ecstasy

What does Ecstasy mean for you? Any kind of Ecstasy? Does it have a place in your life? – I have seen two clients lately who had alcohol or drug addictions in the past, and one of them found that … Continue reading

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